SMART ADvice

MY NEW YEARS RESOLUTION IS.........         Why do we wait for a new year to make resolutions? I've never gotten it. The year of favour, the year of greatness, do such things exist? I am not against anyone here. Here's what i think, blessings, favour, greatness, are things that are always there, they don't wait for a new year. It is just a matter of us tapping them.      My friend was full of excitement the other day, reason being a celebrity asked for a selfie with her. She had expected the opposite, her to go to him and not the other way round. I never saw how the excitement came about, of course my friend is great, full of potential, and she radiates it everywhere she goes.       I believe I always have great people around me and whoever meets me is great. We should never wait for people to remind us how blessed or how great we are, it's something that is already written.      At the beginning of this ...

THOSE WHO START A FIRE..............     Those who start a fire are not the ones who necessarily put it out. One thing I know about most boys is that their rooms can look like a store, dirty clothes spread on the floor, cups, spoons, car dolls on the bed, books strewn all over the place.  When Lisa was growing up, her brothers room used to earn her money at times. The boys would wait until their mum would start yelling for them to start blaming each other for messing up the room, then later on, they would clean it up, but they never did it alone, at times Lisa sisters  would be hired to do the job, then later on mum would come and give the boys a credit.      The boys used to wait until their mum got angry for them to act, and when she was angry, the house was never a nice place. So Lisa  knew that if she cleaned up the room earlier, the tension won't be there and everyone would be happy. And it was so.      We alwa...