BEING AGGRESSIVE AND BEING A SYCOPHANT

    It is often easy to know if a person wants something from  you, they suddenly become overly good to you and more friendlier than they usually are. 
    Other people will just come to you without any flattery and ask you to help out. and if you are not willing to, they will not pamper you, they will simply go their way. `
    The former group of individuals are said to be aggressive, but are they really so? Being aggressive means doing everything possible to succeed, I totally agree with that but what if you succeed only to end up as somebody's doormat? 
Stooping low lowers the respect other people have for you. You agree to every shit they say and you do every thing they say. 
In my opinion the latter group of people are the aggressive ones, If you don't want to help them out, they will go out of their way to ensure they succeed, with or without you, they may not make it on their own but they will find people willing to help them with no strings attached. 
If you ever come across anyone who really needs your help and you are in a position the help them out, just do the necessary by first asking if you could help them if they agree, do so, don't wait to be pampered for you to use them to your advantage.  

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